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As I Am: I Can Only Be Me (That’s So Gay)

“My definition of success is to live your life in a way that causes you to feel a ton of pleasure and very little pain – and because of your lifestyle, have the people around you feel a lot more pleasure than they do pain.”

~Anthony Robbins 

You tell me to be true to myself and make myself happy, but you’re quick to jump on the bandwagon and talk down about me. You tell me you’re happy for me, but when I need a shoulder you’re quick to say “you chose this lifestyle.” You say you don’t care and you love me no less but every time we talk, you’re preaching the “word” to me and trying to tell me why I’m “like this.” Why is it that you can not wholeheartedly love me for me? Why can’t you accept me as I am? I am sorry to disappoint you but I can only be me.

F*@k Me Hard…

DISCLAIMER!! Although inspired in part by a true incident, the following story is fictional and does not depict any actual person or event. 

Sitting here, clit pounding beneath my shorts as thoughts enter my mind. I need you, right here, right now. I can’t seem to control myself when I see you. When I first saw you, I knew I had to have you. The day we met I didn’t really know much about you but as time went on, I made sure I did my homework, so I was well prepared. Getting to know you better was the best thing I ever did, as my need grew for you, I knew that it was only a matter of time when I would be unable to fully control myself. These feelings, although new to me, made me nervous, while at the same time, turned me on. I really need you, I know that I say that every time I see you but this time its more urgent, I need you not now, but RIGHT NOW. 

Friend Or Significant Other… Who Is More Important

Friends or significant other, its been a toss up and a problem with a lot of relationships. Everyone has been in this situation before, whether you are the friend or the significant other, no one is excused or immune to this. Shall we put the two on the scale, are friends or your significant more important when you are in a relationship? Who becomes a priority? Does that priority change over time, or should it be the same throughout the relationship? 

We’ve all been in new relationships, just the thought of having to learn everything about this person is both exciting and scary. When the two of you separate you can’t think of anything else, other than to see them again.  You want to spend all of your time with your new found love, that you don’t even have a second thought about hanging with anyone else but them. Of course all of your friends know by now that your happy and in love, you ask yourself “is it wrong to want my friends support?”

Always Want What They Can’t Have

Some women honestly make me smile, they can’t make up their mind when it comes to what they want. A guy, or girl for that matter, that is attractive could be talking to them at the bar or out in the club but for reasons unknown they choose to turn them down. The minute the person shifts their attention to someone who is actually interested in their conversation all of a sudden they want to try strike up a conversation again and try to get in. Women, your eyes are too big for your heart, they always want what they can’t have.

How Important Is SEX To You?

“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, its’ the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.”

~Unknown

How important is sex to you and your relationship? Hypothetically speaking of course, if you was in a relationship with someone and that person was everything that you asked for; financially stable, emotionally attached, understanding, loyal and so on but sexually they just are not compatible with you. What would you do? Would you leave, would you talk to them about it, would you stay and have someone on the side who can satisfy your needs?

Truly, Madly, Deeply, In Love

It’s funny how big of an impact you have on me. It’s like when I see you, you don’t even have to speak…all you can do is smile, and it can make my day, and then that’s how I remember my reasons for loving you.

Is there any such thing as truly, madly, deeply in love? Is there such a thing as love? My answer, yes. I say yes while others may say no, but I say yes because to me, love is; letting go, full stop, period, the end.

One of the most uplifting feelings in the world to experience, and its our choice if we choose to bring it into our world or not. Many say that a life without love isa life not lived at all, and I agree. You have some people who have loved only once and because of one heartache, they chose to keep their heart to themselves. People like that appear happy on the outside, but on the inside they truly are lonely. Everyone wants someone to spend their life, someone to come home to, someone to trust with your tears and pain, laughter and joy, someone to love. The only thing that seems to stop people is the fact that they won’t go, they won’t give away the key to their soul, key to their core, key to the power to be able to hurt them.