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Smackabitchitis

Smackabitchitis
Well Hello There!! Welcome, I see this is your first time to the site feel free to sign up for my RSS feed or follow me to be updated with the site...

You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him.

~Leo Aikma
In this game of life its definitely a dog eat dog world, everyone is out to get someone, someone is always looking to bring someones world down, but is that really living, is that really what life is about?
Have you ever had just a messed up start to your day, have you ever seen red at just the sight or thought of someone just caught a severe case of “SMACKABITCHITIS” just wanted to smack a bitch??!!! Sigh sad isn’t it, the fact that we allow one person to ruin our day, one person to take full control of our emotions, one person who is completely worthless yet just by a shift in our attitude we hand them over the power. Regardless if you admit it or not everyone at least one time or another has let someone who is insignificant ruin their entire day. You know that moment were you are sitting down, or driving and your replaying the very moment or each encounter you have had with them and thought of ways you could have dealt with it differently, things you could have said but you chose to hold your tongue… I say this don’t regret it. Everything happens for a reason and everything always ends up working out in the end, but of course because we want to work out a specific way if that way doesn’t happen we usually end up feeling like nothing was accomplished.
Have you ever felt like there are just people in the world whose sole purpose is to just piss people off, be nasty negative people, those people who instantly give you a case of ”SMACKABITCHITIS. In all honesty I really wonder why it is that people are like that? I mean really is your life that boring, are you that lonely, are you that miserable that you just get off on others people’s misery??!! Like that shit is not healthy, just thinking about it gets me worked up. They literally find a way to be your friend or find a way to contact you or just don’t even know you and just run their mouth… really? you have nothing else better to do with your time???
The funny but sad part is that people like that at one point or another always end up winning but it’s up to you to decide who will have the last laugh. You have to find the strength to resist the feeling to smack a bitch and just be the bigger person. I know I know it’s easier said than done, but sometimes we have to put one foot in front of one and attempt to take that step. My momma used to say to me “if you ignore stupidity it will go away” but after growing up I just look at it like this, entertaining negativity will shift your mood and you will only draw more negativity into your life. I don’t believe in ignoring it, by all means find someone you can vent to to get it off your chest but just make sure you resist the urge to be drawn into the negative space.

 

 

 

Comments

  1. Adeche says

    Encountered more than enough people that make me wanna catch a case real quick. Like you said its best to TRY and ignore the situation. Looking froward to more. Glad to have you back!

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