Thursday , 17 April 2014

It Could Be Worse


 FYI: We ALL have problems.  Life is like a blanket. Too short.  You pull it up and your toes rebel, you yank it down and shivers meander about your shoulder; but cheerful folks manage to draw their knees up and pass a very comfortable night.  ~Marion Howard If you’re human like me, then you have encountered at least one challenging ... Read More »

Curl to Curl…Naturally Curly…The BIG Chop


“I learned to love myself but only after the love of others would not quite do.” – Shefon Nachelle   Curl to Curl… WELCOME!!! Now that you are on your new journey or maybe continuing your journey of naturally curly, I welcome you to join me on my continuing journey. I have just made the BIG CHOP.  I never would have thought that ... Read More »

Caution: Women Competing Against Each Other


“The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before.” -Albert Einstein Since when was women competing against each other applauded, encouraged, praised or even rewarded?? Years ago women stood together to get ahead in life, because they ... Read More »

Love and Trust: In Love We Trust, Or Is It…


“Love is weakest when there is more doubt than trust but love is strongest when we learn to trust despite the doubts.”    Love and Trust; the two go hand in hand. It seems like these days trust is non-existent, extinct even. How many women AND men for that matter carry their heartache and lack of trust into current and new relationships? I ... Read More »

Gossip Game


“What you don’t see with your eyes, don’t witness with your mouth.”   People are so quick to talk about sh*t they know absolutely nothing about, it is merely hearsay, especially if you didn’t witness it first hand. Create ONE enemy and I guarantee you will be gossiped about, but as they say; be thankful that you have enemies. The ... Read More »

Turn Back The Hands Of Time


“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”  ― Mae West   If you had the power to turn back the hands of time would you? Would you redo your life all over again or make changes? Or would you turn down the opportunity and live with the decisions you have made throughout your life thus ... Read More »

Why Lie??

Why Lie

“The truth doesn’t always set you free; people prefer to believe prettier, neatley wrapped lies”  ― Jodi Picoult When you tell the truth, you don’t have anything to remember… Why is it that people stay lying about insignificant stuff, stuff that is so small and unimportant? Why must you lie about your life, lie about yourself to make yourself appear more appealing? ... Read More »

Trust And Believe

Trust And Believe

“Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.” ― Stephen R. Covey Trust according to the dictionary means: assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something. One in which confidence is placed. Everyone wants to be trusted and everyone wants someone they can trust, ... Read More »

I’m Black and I’m Gay: Homophobia

Black And Gay

“Everybody’s journey is individual.  If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy.  The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality. “ ~James Baldwin Recently in the NBA world Jason Collins came out and declared to the world, I’m Black AND I’m Gay and I ... Read More »

Drive: Pt 3


(Click to read Drive-Pt 2) Eager to taste my juices he helped me up and we switched positions. He bought his face to mine and kissed me with passion and aggression, his lips on mine gave me tingles down my spine. He started to kiss and nibble on my ears while his hands gripped my ass. Making his way down my ... Read More »